Unseen Love

Kenapa kita menutup mata ketika kita tidur? ketika kita menangis? ketika kita membayangkan?
Ini karena hal terindah di dunia TIDAK TERLIHAT... Ketika kita menemukan seseorang yang keunikannya SEJALAN dengan kita.. kita bergabung dengannya dan jatuh ke dalam suatu keanehan serupa yang dinamakan CINTA...
Ada hal-hal yang tidak ingin kita lepaskan.. Orang2 yang tidak ingin kita tinggalkan... Tapi ingatlah... melepaskan BUKAN akhir dari dunia.. melainkan awal suatu kehidupan baru.. Kebahagiaan ada untuk mereka yang menangis, mereka yang tersakiti, mereka yang telah mencari... dan mereka yang telah mencoba ..
Karena MEREKALAH yang bisa menghargai betapa pentingnya orang yang telah menyentuh kehidupan mereka.. CINTA yang AGUNG?
Adalah ketika kamu menitikkan air mata dan MASIH peduli terhadapnya.. Adalah ketika dia tidak mempedulikanmu dan kamu MASIH menunggunya dengan setia..
Adalah ketika dia mulai mencintai orang lain dan kamu MASIH bisa tersenyum sembari berkata 'Aku turut berbahagia untukmu'.
Apabila cinta tidak berhasil... BEBASKAN dirimu... Biarkan hatimu kembali melebarkan sayapnya dan terbang ke alam bebas LAGI .. Ingatlah...bahwa kamu mungkin menemukan cinta dan kehilangannya.. tapi.. ketika cinta itu mati.. kamu TIDAK perlu mati bersamanya...
Orang terkuat BUKAN mereka yang selalu menang..MELAINKAN mereka yang tetap tegar ketika mereka jatuh. Entah bagaimana...dalam perjalanan kehidupan, kamu belajar tentang dirimu sendiri.. dan menyadari bahwa penyesalan tidak seharusnya ada. HANYALAH penghargaan abadi atas pilihan2 kehidupan yang telah kau buat.
TEMAN SEJATI... mengerti ketika kamu berkata 'Aku lupa..'
Menunggu selamanya ketika kamu berkata 'Tunggu sebentar'
Tetap tinggal ketika kamu berkata 'Tinggalkan aku sendiri'
Membuka pintu meski kamu BELUM mengetuk dan berkata 'Bolehkah saya masuk?'
MENCINTAI... BUKANlah bagaimana kamu melupakan..melainkan bagaimana kamu MEMAAFKAN.. BUKANlah bagaimana kamu mendengarkan..melainkan bagaimana kamu MENGERTI.. BUKANlah apa yang kamu lihat..melainkan apa yang kamu RASAKAN.. BUKANlah bagaimana kamu melepaskan.. melainkan bagaimana kamu BERTAHAN..
Lebih berbahaya mencucurkan air mata dalam hati...dibandingkan menangis tersedu-sedu.. Air mata yang keluar dapat dihapus.. sementara air mata yang tersembunyi menggoreskan luka yang tidak akan pernah hilang..
Dalam urusan cinta, kita SANGAT JARANG menang.. Tapi ketika CINTA itu TULUS, meskipun kalah, kamu TETAP MENANG hanya karena kamu berbahagia.. dapat mencintai seseorang.. LEBIH dari kamu mencintai dirimu sendiri..
Akan tiba saatnya dimana kamu harus berhenti mencintai seseorang BUKAN karena orang itu berhenti mencintai kita MELAINKAN karena kita menyadari bahwa orang itu akan lebih berbahagia apabila kita melepaskannya. Apabila kamu benar2 mencintai seseorang, jangan lepaskan dia.. jangan percaya bahwa melepaskan SELALU berarti kamu benar-benar mencintai MELAINKAN...BERJUANGLAH demi cintamu. Itulah CINTA SEJATI.
Lebih baik menunggu orang yang kamu inginkan DARIPADA berjalan bersama orang 'yang tersedia'
Kadang kala, orang yang kamu cintai adalah orang yang PALING menyakiti hatimu dan kadang kala, teman yang menangis bersamamu adalah cinta yang tidak kamu sadari.

-- the end, it's not about finding someone perfect to love, but how to love an imperfect person perfectly --

Someday I can love someone

Please feel free to share your experience or opinion....
Here's the answer to the question on what to prefer:
"the one who loves you or the one you love..."
This is also for those who are waiting for the person they love to love them back openly,to those who are looking for love and those who know that their love is not meant to be...
Sometimes, in our relentless efforts to find the person we love,we fail to recognize and appreciate the people who love us.
We miss out on so many beautiful things and simply because we allow ourselves to be enslaved by our own selfish concerns.
Go for the person of deeds and not for the one of words, for you will find rewarding happiness not with the one you love but the one whom loves you more.
The best lovers are those who are capable of loving from a distance, far enough to allow the other person to grow, but never too far to feel the love deep within your being.
To let go of someone doesn't mean you have to stop loving, it onlymeans that you allow that person to find his own happiness withoutexpecting him to come back.
Letting go is not just setting the otherperson free but it is also setting yourself free from all bitterness, hatred, and anger that you keep in your heart.
Do not let the bitterness rare away your strength and weaken yourfaith, and never allow pain to dishearten you, but rather let you grow with wisdom in bearing it.
You may found peace in just loving someone from a distance not expecting anything in return.
But be careful, for this can sustain life but can never give enough room for us to grow.
We can all survive with just beautiful memories of the past but realpeace and happiness come only with open acceptance of what reality is today.
There comes a time in our lives when we chance upon someone so nice and beautiful and we just find ourselves getting so intensely attracted to that person.
This feeling soon becomes a part of our everyday lives and eventually consumes our thoughts and actions.
Others are lucky to have an actual fairy tale unfold in their lives,when they find that this is the significant other they've long been waiting for...
However, for some, the sad part of it is when we begin to realize that this person feels nothing more for us than just a friendship...
but don't be so bitter about it! For it is a kind of FRIENDSHIP that will last for a LIFETIME!!!
We start our desperate attempt to get noticed and be closer but in the end our efforts are still unrewarded and we end up being sorry for ourselves.
You don't have to forget someone you love. What you need to learn is how to accept the verdict of reality without being bitter or sorry for yourself.
Believe me, you would be better off giving that dedication and love to someone more deserving.
Don't let your heart run your life, be sensible, and let your mind speak for itself. Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as well.
Always remember that if you lose someone today, it means that someone better is coming tomorrow:
If you lose love that doesn't mean that you failed in love. Cry, if you have to, but make sure that the tears wash away the hurt and the bitterness that the past has left with you. Let go of yesterday and love will find its way back to you.
And when it does, pray that it may be the love that will stay and last a lifetime.
"When I lost you, I was the one who loved you most, but between us you lost more. For someday I can love someone the way that I loved you but you will never be loved again the way that I did."
Pay attention to what you read. After you read this, you will know the reason it was posted!
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is, you willknow what to do for each person.

I Will

Who knows how long I Love You
You know I Love You still
Will I wait for lonely life time
If You want me too, I Will

For if I never saw you
I didn't catch your name
But it never really matter
I will always feel the same

Love You Forever and Forever
Love You with all My Heart
Love You whenever We're Together
Love You when We're apart

And when at least I found You
Your song will fill the air
Sing it loud so I can hear You
Make it easy to be near You

All the things You do
Endear You to me
oh You know I Will